Is it Ok to use a friend as your wedding photographer? First Dance.
Everyone has a camera nowadays. Even the humble mobile phone has the ability to capture very pleasing pictures – outdoors on a nice sunny day, or even in the cold and snow – and many people rely on this or the new, big camera sported by a keen photographer friend, so anyone can take nice pictures nowadays… or can they?
If the person behind the lens understands the technology and is able to compose a good picture, and has experience of what sort of pictures a bride and groom wants, and has the dedication and knowledge to edit them properly he or she might get a few good daylight images. What about poor weather conditions though? I personally cringe when I see the pics shot by friends and family on Facebook, as they are almost always too dark, and usually pretty blurry, as well as just being a jumble of people all over the place. But at least they will have something and save a lot of money…? Depends if photos are important to you… or is it just the wedding dress and great day out and personal memories that count?
What happens though, if the person – or people – entrusted to take your wedding photos, duffs up?… There are so many horror stories around, but this particular one has left the couple without any usable photos at all of their wedding day, and now the friend is no longer a friend!
If you don’t have time to follow that link, basically their photographer friend just put the memory card in his wallet, instead of downloading and backing up the pics, then lost it a week later when he couldn’t find his jacket with it in, after a pub visit, so they don’t have any wedding photos they can use now!
All that time spent planning a wedding day, paying for a beautiful wedding dress, flowers, and venue, yet nothing left to show for it once the food had been eaten… Such a shame!
“Oh I do sympathise, I made the same mistake! A friend offered to take our photos as a wedding present. He had done weddings before and showed us his photos, which were lovely. But on the day, without our knowledge, his camera broke so he borrowed one and couldn’t get it to work. He gave us the film undeveloped (I think he knew what was coming!) and when we got the film processed they were awful! We also had disposable cameras on the tables – which meant no-one used their own cameras so most of our wedding snaps are grainy poor quality snaps. I was in tears and sadly it did cause a rift with our friend. If we’d known the camera had broken we would have asked our friends to take as many photos as they could! We’ve been married for 7 happy years now and have one beautiful photo that we salvaged in pride of place in our living room, and I love it 🙂 Whenever anyone tells me they are getting married my one piece of advice is to invest in a good photographer.
– Helen, London, 16/6/2012 01:23″
Compare this first dance pic…
Mrs Sanderson, who lives in St Blazey, Cornwall, said: ‘I am absolutely gutted. We can’t even talk about the wedding now, the whole thing has left a bitter taste in our mouths’
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See literally hundreds of thousands of wedding pictures on Reel Life Photos website or if in a hurry this one is quicker to view www.LeedsWeddingPhotographers.com and decide for yourself whether it is worth paying for a lovely experience and personal wedding photos of your whole day or if its not that important to you I understand you why you would want to save money… but…
xx Elaine
June 19th, 2012 at 10:41 am
WOW!!!! ELAINE!!! WOW!! I am so stealing this with your permission. WOW!!!
June 20th, 2012 at 12:32 am
Absolutely! Permission granted Akara! Its great you like it so much! I tend not to write many articles, as have so many images to show, but from time to time feel, a few words are needed. Feel free to substitute your own image examples to illustrate the point if you wish. xx
June 21st, 2012 at 6:08 am
Totally agree. If you are looking to save money please don’t do it by getting a friend as a photographer!
Andrew
http:/www.andrew-miller.co.uk
July 20th, 2012 at 9:48 am
Thanks Andrew too. We all know what is likely to happen if you do fall into that trap! Once the food has been eaten, and all the fun/dancing is over everyone waits with great excitement to see the wedding photos. If these fail to reflect your expectations, and don’t show the best of your day with family and friends, then certain memories soon fade, leaving a huge gap in your heart where the photos should have been to bring it all back to you.
One of our Asian wedding clients used me for their engagement shoot, and despite being really happy with the results and the experience, then decided to save money and use a friend for their actual wedding. I am now booked to do a re-shoot for them at their original wedding venue, just to get the kind of photos they had in mind, though of course this won’t be the same as what they would have had, had they not tried to cut corners on the photography budget for their wedding day(s)…